Wedding ceremonies with a Scottish theme custom-created by Jennifer Cram, Civil Marriage Celebrant / Humanist Officiant

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Scottish blessings

18th Century Gaelic Blessing
written by the
Reverend Donald MacLeod, Minister of Duirinish, Skye Scotland

Mìle fàilte dhuit le d'bhréid,
Fad do ré gun robh thu slàn.
Móran làithean dhuit is sìth,
Le d'mhaitheas is le d'nì bhi fàs.

Translation:
A thousand welcomes to you with your marriage kerchief,
may you be healthy all your days.
May you be blessed with long life and peace,
may you grow old with goodness and with riches.

Scottish readings

There are many fine works of Scottish poetry which, because they are still protected by copyright, cannot be posted on this website. Consider the works of Sorley Maclean, the greatest Gaelic poet of the 20th Century, either in the original or in translation; the heart-warming poems of  Aonghas MacNeacail, Maureen Sangster, Iain Crichton-Smith and Gael Turnbull, or the tongue-in-cheek poetry of Diana Hendry,

The Confirmation
by Edwin Muir (1887-1959) who was born in Orkney
Yes, yours, my love, is the right human face.
l in my mind had waited for this long,
Seeing the false and searching for the true,
Then found you as a traveller finds a place
Of  welcome suddenly amid the wrong
Valleys and rocks and twisting roads. But you,
What shall I call you? A fountain in a waste,
A well of water in a country dry,
Or anything that's honest and good, an eye
That makes the whole world bright. Your open heart,
Simple with giving, gives the primal deed,
The first good world, the blossom, the blowing seed,
The hearth, the steadfast land, the wandering sea,
Not beautiful or rare in every part,
But like yourself, as they were meant to be.


1 Corinthians 13 from The New Testament in Scots
by William Laughton Lorimer
Luve is patientful; luve is couthie an kind;
    luve is jane jailous; nane sprosie;
nane bowdent wi pride; nane mislaired;
    nane hame-drauchit; nane toustie.

Luve keeps nae nickstick o the wrangs it drees;
    find nae pleisure i the ill wark o ithers;
is ey liftit up whan truith dings lies;
    kens ey tae keep a caum souch;
 ie ey sweired tae misdout;
    ey howps the best; ey bides the warst.

there is three things bides for eye:
faith, howp, luve
But the grytest of the three is luve.



The Piper




My Love was Warm by Robert Louis Stevenson

My love was warm; for that I crossed
The mountains and the sea,
Nor counted that endeavour lost
That gave my love to me.

If that indeed were love at all,
As still, my love, I trow,
By what dear name am I to call
The bond that holds me now


The Piper by Robert Louis Stevenson
Again I hear you piping, for I know the tune so well, -
You rouse the heart to wander and be free,
Tho' where you learned your music, not the God of song can tell,
For you pipe the open highway and the sea.
O piper, lightly footing, lightly piping on your way,
Tho' your music thrills and pierces far and near,
I tell you you had better pipe to someone else to-day,
For you cannot pipe my fancy from my dear.

You sound the note of travel through the hamlet and the town;
You would lure the holy angels from on high;
And not a man can hear you, but he throws the hammer down
And is off to see the countries ere he die.
But now no more I wander, now unchanging here I stay;
By my love, you find me safely sitting here:
And pipe you ne'er so sweetly, till you pipe the hills away,
You can never pipe my fancy from my dear.